Questions for Couples
Welcome to our comprehensive question list for couples, designed to spark meaningful conversations and deepen your connection.
Whether you’re newly dating, in a long-term relationship, engaged, or married, these thought-provoking questions are crafted to foster openness and understanding between partners. Relationships thrive on communication, and exploring these topics can help you learn more about each other’s values, aspirations, and perspectives on life.
- What rejection hurt you the most?
- What is the smallest thing for which you are grateful?
- What do you think you do better than 90% of people?
- What was most different about your life one year ago?
- What is your most controversial dating opinion?
- What do you respect most about your best friend?
- What do you dislike that everyone else seems to like? What do you like that everyone else seems to dislike?
- What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you? What is the unluckiest thing that has happened to you?
- How do you like to be cared for when you’re not feeling well?
- What’s the biggest age gap you would consider dating?
- How hard is it for you to open up to other people?
- From your perspective, how has the world changed the most in the last ten years?
- What is a childhood habit or preference that you’ll never outgrow?
- Who, if you had the opportunity to personally meet them, do you think would change your life the most?
- What do people most often misunderstand or get wrong about you?
- Ideally, how would you spend your birthday?
- What would be the worst way to die for you personally?
- What do you value most: flexibility, purpose, compensation, or prestige?
- What is something you’ve done / felt / seen / etc that you wish you could experience again for the first time?
- Who of us takes the lead emotionally, financially, spiritually, etc?
- What do you place first in your life?
- What celebrity event did you irrationally follow / care about the most?
- What concept do you feel like you’ll still be figuring out for the rest of your life?
- How do you show people that you love them?
- What percentage of the time have you kissed on the first date?
- What is one thing you will never do again?
- Are you still friends with any of your previous partners? How do you think about maintaining friendships with previous partners?
- What quality are you actively trying to develop right now?
- Whose opinion do you care most about?
- Who is the best listener in your life? (partner excluded)
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