Questions for Families

Get to know your family better with these questions. Learn more about your siblings and parents, or even grandparents and discover gems about your family history!

  1. What do you think would shock the younger you most about the older you?
  2. What rule did you argue over most with your parents?
  3. What is your best trivia category?
  4. What is one thing you’re good at that people don’t expect?
  5. What is the smallest thing for which you are grateful?
  6. If you could magically make one food or habit healthy, what would you choose?
  7. How has your opinion of your family changed over the years?
  8. What do you respect most about your best friend?
  9. What do you think you do better than 90% of people?
  10. What was most different about your life one year ago?
  11. What do you get the most compliments about?
  12. What is the closest thing your nuclear family has to a shared hobby?
  13. What is the dumbest way you injured yourself?
  14. What is a childhood habit or preference that you’ll never outgrow?
  15. My most nostalgic meal is _________.
  16. What is one childhood memory that you remember especially well?
  17. What do you think your family’s funniest story about you is?
  18. Ideally, how would you spend your birthday?
  19. What makes you proud of your family?
  20. What is your favorite emotional attribute you inherited from your parents?
  21. Do you online shop more or less than your peers?
  22. If you had to choose the exact location of your forever home today where would it be?
  23. If you could develop any one athletic skill overnight what would it be?
  24. What is something you’ve done / felt / seen / etc that you wish you could experience again for the first time?
  25. What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you? What is the unluckiest thing that has happened to you?
  26. What is one thing that instantly makes your day better?
  27. What did you learn about marriage from your parents?
  28. What’s the biggest difference between you and your family?
  29. What’s one thing you want to do or wish you’d done before having children?
  30. Have you ever caught yourself repeating something you parents said to you?
  31. What’s your favorite family tradition?
  32. In three words how would you describe your childhood?
  33. What family member, outside of your immediate family, impacted you the most?
  34. What one value defines your family the most?
  35. What do you regret not sticking to or starting when you were younger?
  36. How are you the most similar to your parents when it comes to health? How are you the most different from your parents?
  37. Does your family have a certain culture / set of shared values around health? If so, what are they?
  38. What are you really good at but embarrassed to be good at?
  39. How hard on yourself are you about body image?
  40. Would you rather speak every language or be able to play every instrument?
  41. Do you think you are an above or below average singer?
  42. What kind of elderly person do you hope to be?
  43. What is something you never get sick of (i.e. movies, music, etc)?
  44. What was your favorite age growing up?
  45. Who was the best teacher you ever had?
  46. If you had to eat at one restaurant for the rest of your life which would it be?
  47. What physical traits do you share with your relatives?
  48. What did you do as a teenager that makes you cringe now?
  49. If you had to show your kids only one picture of you “growing up,” which would you show them?
  50. How long do you think you could survive in a remote forest with no tools?
  51. What is the worst haircut you’ve ever had?
  52. How many hours do you get to the airport before a flight?
  53. What does self-care look like for you?
  54. What is on your bucket list?
  55. If you could outsource any one aspect of your life today at no cost what would you choose?
  56. What is the hardest you’ve laughed recently?
  57. Who has intimidated you the most in life?
  58. What habit / routine are you most ashamed of? (Be honest)
  59. If you were limited to only six groomsmen / bridesmaids who would they be?
  60. What sized group are you most at ease in?
  61. Do you think you would have been better situated as a different number sibling in your family (e.g. if you’re the oldest, do you think you would’ve been better off as the youngest, etc)?
  62. How did birth order affect your family’s dynamic?
  63. What is your favorite story about your grandparents?
  64. What is one quiet dream you’ve tucked away?
  65. What is your love language?
  66. What were the longest five minutes you’ve ever experienced?
  67. What is something you’ve done that you recommend everyone do before they die?
  68. Who would you prefer to set you up on a blind date: friends, family members, coworkers, professional dating services, or random strangers?
  69. What was your last big rejection?
  70. If you had to start a family business, what would it be?
  71. Guess the last three things mom or dad googled.
  72. Who is the best driver in the family?
  73. Guess the last three things your partner googled.
  74. What are your goals for the week?
  75. What criticism of you has stuck with you the most?
  76. What is one way you helped another person today?
  77. What is your favorite household chore? What is your least favorite?
  78. Have you ever been told that you have a doppelgänger? If so, who is it?
  79. What do you hope people would highlight about you at your funeral?
  80. What’s your favorite memory of your mom and dad?
  81. Whose marriage do you consider to be a model marriage and why?
  82. How many children would you like to have or would have wanted?
  83. Are you closer to your father or your mother?
  84. What’s the thing you most hope to replicate from your own upbringing?
  85. How important are your siblings to you?
  86. What’s one thing you would change about your father or mother?
  87. What’s one thing you miss most about your father or mother?
  88. Would you ever have a home birth?
  89. What do you love the most about my parents?
  90. What do you hate the most about my parents?
  91. What’s the most important value you’d teach your children?
  92. Do you have a relative you’ve lost touch with that you miss?
  93. How are you different from your mom and dad?
  94. Who’s the black sheep in your family and why?
  95. Is there a habit or behavior you try not to emulate from your parents or siblings?
  96. Would you give your child more or less freedom than you had growing up?
  97. What three qualities would you most like to raise your children to embody?