Questions about Intimacy for Couples

  1. How PDA are you in a relationship on a scale of 1-10?
  2. If you woke up in the body of someone of the opposite gender, what would you be interested to find out or do?
  3. What would someone have to do to make you fall in love with them?
  4. Do you have an opinion about the appropriate age to have sex for the first time?
  5. In your opinion, what is the perfect age to get married?
  6. How long does it usually take before you will sleep with someone?
  7. Whose marriage do you most admire?
  8. What is the longest time you have gone without sex as an adult?
  9. What is the largest age difference you had in a relationship?
  10. Do you think you would be better or worse than the average person at maintaining a long distance relationship?
  11. People can show their love to me by _________.
  12. What constitutes a good sexual relationship?
  13. What do you think about music during sex?
  14. Do you consider yourself as someone with low, medium, or high emotional needs?
  15. A healthy sexual relationship means having sex at least ____ times per month.
  16. What percentage of the time have you kissed on the first date?
  17. Do you consider yourself to be someone who falls in love easily?
  18. What are your thoughts on love at first sight?
  19. What tends to be the first thing you are drawn to about someone’s physical appearance?
  20. What would you be most curious to learn if you changed your gender for a day?
  21. What would you like to do with your partner that you have never done before or might be too shy to bring up?
  22. Which areas of your past are most important to discuss with a fiance?
  23. What is the greatest gift you have to offer a partner?
  24. What do you enjoy most about being in a committed relationship? Dislike most?
  25. Do you wish you had slept with more or fewer people?
  26. What are your thoughts on kissing on the first date?
  27. Do you have thoughts about how many dates someone should go on generally before sleeping with someone?
  28. What clothes do you find sexy?
  29. What was your best sexual experience?
  30. What is your sexiest feature?
  31. When are you happiest in a relationship?
  32. What is the most reckless thing you have done in the name of romance?
  33. Do you think you significant other would say they are good in bed?
  34. What would you do if you found out your partner was faking orgasms?
  35. Do you have a “one who got away”?
  36. Do you have a person that you regret sleeping with?
  37. What are the best reasons to get married?
  38. What three qualities are most important in someone you date?
  39. What would you do if you found out your significant other was cheating on you?
  40. Do you have any thoughts about premarital sex?
  41. Would you rather die before or after your partner?
  42. If you could only know one fact about the future of your relationship / life with your partner, what would you want to know?
  43. What is the craziest place you’ve had sex?
  44. How would you most want to spend two days alone with your partner?
  45. Did you ever have a crush on someone that your friend was dating at the time? BE HONEST.
  46. Do you consider yourself a romantic?
  47. Is there anyone that you regret not sleeping with?
  48. Have you ever wondered what a co-worker was like in bed?
  49. Do you think you could have been successful in an arranged marriage?
  50. Do you think it is necessary for a couple to live together before getting married?
  51. Do you think you are good at setting people up?
  52. How important is a healthy sex life to a happy relationship in your opinion?
  53. How do you think about the concept of a prenup?
  54. Do you consider yourself a good flirt?
  55. What are three wishes you have for your marriage?
  56. What do you think would lower the national divorce rate?
  57. Are you possessive or jealous by nature?
  58. Who in your relationship is the more adventurous sexual partner?
  59. How often do you think about sex?