Questions to Ask Your Partner
Discover deeper connections with your partner through our thoughtful collection of questions designed to strengthen bonds and foster meaningful conversations.
Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for years, our curated list of partner questions covers everything from shared dreams and aspirations to cherished memories and future plans. Explore topics that promote understanding and intimacy, encouraging open communication and mutual growth.
- If you woke up in the body of someone of the opposite gender, what would you be interested to find out or do?
- What do you think would shock the younger you most about the older you?
- How PDA are you in a relationship on a scale of 1-10?
- What is your most controversial dating opinion?
- What is our recurring fight?
- If you could wave your hand and make it so one of your partner’s interests never existed, which would it be?
- One thing you never want your partner to change?
- I’d be completely shocked if you _______.
- What is something that your partner makes look easy?
- What was most different about your life one year ago?
- How have you changed since we were first together?
- What do you get the most compliments about?
- What would be the worst way to die for you personally?
- What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you? What is the unluckiest thing that has happened to you?
- Who is more likely to get lost?
- What’s the cutest thing your partner did this week?
- What kind of contest would you easily win together?
- Invent an award that your partner ought to receive. What’s it called?
- I feel protective of you when _______.
- I wouldn’t mind if you never wore ________ again…
- How would your partner’s best friend describe you?
- What is your partner struggling with right now?
- Who is your favorite relative from my side of the family? Why?
- What is one thing that instantly makes your day better?
- Tell me how you describe me to other people.
- What makes you feel appreciated?
- What’s your biggest strength in our relationship?
- What three things do we have in common?
- What percentage of the time have you kissed on the first date?
- What is the most different thing from your expectations about the person you ended up with?
- Who would be more emotionally distraught if we broke up?
- Who is the better driver?
- Who is more likely to sleep in?
- Who is better at budgeting?
- Who is more patient?
- What do you think your partner understands about you better than anyone else?
- Who are couples you look to as examples?
- What sexual activity do you consider totally off limits?
- Are there any differences to how you prefer to spend a weeknight to how your partner prefers to spend a weeknight?
- Which of you has more unread emails in their inbox right now?
- How many texts did you send your partner today?
- Which swear word does your partner use the most?
- If you could have a chat with your partner’s boss, what would you say?
- Do you find yourself apologizing more than is necessary? If so, what for?
- Does your partner have a happy dance? When’s the last time you saw it?
- Name one item of your partner’s that you’d love to throw out.
- Can you remember the last time your partner appeared in a dream?
- What is a nickname you’ve been calling your partner lately?
- I can’t imagine life without _______.
- I feel protective of you when____.
- If you started a company together, what would it be?
- What is your favorite thing to do together on a Sunday morning?
- What is a problem you would like your partner to solve?
- What would the first sentence of your partner’s biography be?
- What is something your partner has a hard time talking about?
- What is something that everyone would say about your partner?
- When your partner is feeling down, what do they do to pick themselves up?
- What is new in your relationship?
- What is one habit you would like to break for your partner’s sake?
- What is the most rewarding aspect of your relationship?
- What similarities do you see between our relationship and our parents?
- How do you describe me to other people?
- When is it most difficult to be fully open or honest with me?
- What’s something that turns you on you haven’t shared with me?
- What’s one time lately I’ve made you feel great about yourself and how can I do that more often?
- Have you ever gone through a partner’s phone while they were out of the room?
- What do you wish you knew about me sooner?
- What is the angriest you’ve ever felt towards me?
- Tell me one thing I did this past week that impressed you.
- What makes you a good partner?
- What pain in me would you like to take away?
- What has stayed the same in this relationship since the beginning?
- What do you contribute to the relationship the most?
- If we were to break up tomorrow, what would you miss the most?
- What single word best describes our partnership?
- How are we compatible?
- In what way could be improve our relationship?
- What is your most vivid memory of the first time we met?
- What do you remember thinking to yourself the first time you saw me?
- How do you think we could handle disagreements better?
- What is your favorite sexual memory of us?
- If I don’t say so, how do you know I want to have sex?
- What is your most vivid memory of the first time we were intimate?
- What do you like to watch me do in bed?
- What’s your favorite place to have sex?
- What foreplay do we never do that you’d want to try?
- Would you rather have more frequent sex or better sex?
- Do you talk about our sex life with your friends and family?
- What do you fantasize about?
- What’s a thing I do in bed you’d like me to do more often?
- Ideally how many times a week would you want to have sex?
- What kind of talk do you like, if any, in bed?
- What time of day do you most prefer to have sex?
- What three things make someone good in bed?
- How would you respond if someone approached us to be our “third”?
- Apart from sex what other activity makes you feel close to me?
- How did you learn about sex?
- Is there a sex position you’ve wanted to try but haven’t?
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