Conversation Starters for Meaningful Connection

Getting to know someone takes time and effort. We know it isn’t easy to truly understand someone, whether we’re trying to connect with a romantic interest, a close friend, or even a family member.

We built this list of conversation starters specifically to aid people trying to have meaningful interactions with their loved ones. These probably aren’t the first questions you would think to ask someone, and that’s the point! Our hope is that this list will help you connect by fostering vulnerable and important conversations that will help you walk away feeling closer than ever.

And as always, we extend a friendly Chatterbox invitation to upvote your favorites!

  1. What decision are you grateful you didn’t make?
  2. Where are you falling short of your potential?
  3. What controversial opinions do you enjoy sharing with others?
  4. If you could time travel back to an earlier time in your life, where would you visit and what would you do?
  5. What beliefs keep you from getting into trouble?
  6. If you met your hero, what question would you ask?
  7. What’s the best mistake you ever made and why?
  8. If people came with a warning label, what would yours be?
  9. What compliments do you struggle to believe?
  10. As a child, what rules were made to be broken?
  11. What would it take to remove the biggest obstacle between you and your goals?
  12. How do you best receive criticism?
  13. What do you think society owes its citizens?
  14. If you had to switch places with another person, who would you choose and why?
  15. What choice has had the greatest impact on your life?
  16. Where in your life are you living in a bubble?
  17. In what ways are you bad with money?
  18. What do you want to know about someone that you’ve been scared to ask?
  19. What act of self-care should become a non-negotiable in your life?
  20. What’s your North Star?
  21. What have you done in the last six months that you are proud of?
  22. If you could only leave your children one life lesson, what would it be?
  23. What’s a dealbreaker for you in a relationship?
  24. Describe a time or situation in which you felt screwed over. How did you respond?
  25. If someone wanted to annoy you easily, what would they have you do?
  26. What is your definition of success?
  27. How do you imagine that you’ll spend your retirement?
  28. What are the daily rituals you swear by and think everyone else should explore too?
  29. Who is the strongest person you know and how do you wish you were more like them?
  30. Which teacher had the biggest impact on you and why?